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Love Her

Someone posted this on Facebook and I thought of sharing this here.  It's wonderfully written and tells just about the sacrifices that we, women, wives, mothers, do everyday to the people we love around us...

Enjoy!

Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea.  She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you

Love her…when she "pushes" you to pray.  She wants to be with you in Jannah

Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids.  She did not "make" them on her own.

Love her...when she is jealous.  Out of all the men she can have, she chose you

Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts.  You have them too

Love her…when her cooking is bad.  She tries

Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the morning.  She always grooms herself up again

Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework.  She only wants you to be part of the home

Love her...when she asks if she looks fat.  Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful

Love her…when she looks beautiful.  She's yours so appreciate her

Love her...when she spends hours to get ready.  She only wants to look her best for you

Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like.  Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted

Love her…when she has developed a bad habit.  You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change

Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing.  Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay

Love her…when she suffers from PMS.  Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat with her 

Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing.  It happens and will pass

Love her…when she stains your clothes.  You needed new clothes anyway

Love her…when she tells you how to drive.  She only wants you to be safe

Love her…when she argues.  She only wants to make things right for both of you

Love her…she is yours.  You don't need any other special reason!!!!


All this forms part of a Woman's Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.

The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) advised concerning the woman:

 - Treat the women well

 - The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives

Wallahualam.
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